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The following is a true story of a real person I met in the city of Ramallah, Palestine, Middle East!

She is an extremely unique, smart, ambitious, (open-minded), and talented 26 year old graduate student who has been on (the top of the honor list throughout her study) and has been taking French and English private lessons with me for 7 months!!

Her parents are (abnormally) brutal, heartless and unfair!!! They, for example, forced her, at such a very early age of 15, to marry someone whom she never liked…only because his family is (rich)!!! And that’s despite of the fact that they know that this guy didn’t even complete high school, and so, I think he barely can even write his own name!!!

Now, she has a 6 year old son form that guy, who, in no way and aspect, proved to be better than her own parents!!! Well, not only he kept abusing, mishandling, and even brutally beating her on almost every occasion, but he also even turned out to be nothing but a purely heartless (sadist)!!!!!!!! In fact, that has been obvious to me since her first lessons with me, as she suddenly kept wearing sunglasses, even indoors, for no obvious reason and for a whole month. But it was only on that specific day, on which I insisted that she takes off her sunglasses, that she started crying and revealed all these terrifying facts to me!!!!

Despite of the frequent endless complaints she made about him to her parents, they never tried to help her out!!! On the contrary, they even cursed her and forced her to go back to him, and kept telling her how shameful they felt about her, as they believe that a woman may never, under no condition or cost, leave her (husband’s) house without his (explicit) permission!!!!!!!

Her Parents, as well as her (husband), even keep warning and threatening her in advance, that they would (literally) kill her, out of (shamefulness), if she made, what they call a (stupid move), and decided to reveal any aspect of her suffering to anybody in the world, which is why she couldn’t hide the fact that now she feels even more terrified than ever; having told (me) about it, which shows again and again how terrified she must be!!!!!!

Her "husband", and since his very early days with her, has frequently tried to make her stop going to school, and later to the university. However, whereas her parents stood aside, one of her relatives surprisingly stood firmly against him in this, and it was only when he promised to cover all expenses of her study, that her "husband" finally, but reluctantly, agreed to let it her go for it!!!!!

Despite being very (rich) her "husband" never gives her enough money for anything, and he actually turned out to be so mean that she even had to sell every piece of gold, which he himself bought her on their wedding!!!!!

So, you see, I not only felt so sorry for her, but I also felt so shameful of still residing in such a country where such horrible things are allowed to go on. And so, I had no choice but to promise to help her, by any means necessary, and find her a (terminal) solution, which I realized can’t be done without an (external) third party!

So, is there any reliable trustworthy third party, such as women- or human rights organization, which might be concerned about such a case, (or maybe even adopt it), and so would (somehow) help her (safely) escape to a country where human rights, in general, and women rights in particular, are guaranteed, given that her (parents) and (husband) both never allowed, and will never allow her, to issue a Passport??!!

Any (positive) ideas or suggestions will be appreciated!

P.S: Can I even ask some embassy for help, especially the embassy of my country (Romania)??!!

The following is a true story of a real person I met in the city of Ramallah, Palestine, Middle East!

She is an extremely unique, smart, ambitious, (open-minded), and talented 26 year old graduate student who has been on (the top of the honor list throughout her study) and has been taking French and English private lessons with me for 7 months!!

Her parents are (abnormally) brutal, heartless and unfair!!! They, for example, forced her, at such a very early age of 15, to marry someone whom she never liked…only because his family is (rich)!!! And that’s despite of the fact that they know that this guy didn’t even complete high school, and so, I think he barely can even write his own name!!!

Now, she has a 6 year old son form that guy, who, in no way and aspect, proved to be better than her own parents!!! Well, not only he kept abusing, mishandling, and even brutally beating her on almost every occasion, but he also even turned out to be nothing but a purely heartless (sadist)!!!!!!!! In fact, that has been obvious to me since her first lessons with me, as she suddenly kept wearing sunglasses, even indoors, for no obvious reason and for a whole month. But it was only on that specific day, on which I insisted that she takes off her sunglasses, that she started crying and revealed all these terrifying facts to me!!!!

Despite of the frequent endless complaints she made about him to her parents, they never tried to help her out!!! On the contrary, they even cursed her and forced her to go back to him, and kept telling her how shameful they felt about her, as they believe that a woman may never, under no condition or cost, leave her (husband’s) house without his (explicit) permission!!!!!!!

Her Parents, as well as her (husband), even keep warning and threatening her in advance, that they would (literally) kill her, out of (shamefulness), if she made, what they call a (stupid move), and decided to reveal any aspect of her suffering to anybody in the world, which is why she couldn’t hide the fact that now she feels even more terrified than ever; having told (me) about it, which shows again and again how terrified she must be!!!!!!

Her "husband", and since his very early days with her, has frequently tried to make her stop going to school, and later to the university. However, whereas her parents stood aside, one of her relatives surprisingly stood firmly against him in this, and it was only when he promised to cover all expenses of her study, that her "husband" finally, but reluctantly, agreed to let it her go for it!!!!!

Despite being very (rich) her "husband" never gives her enough money for anything, and he actually turned out to be so mean that she even had to sell every piece of gold, which he himself bought her on their wedding!!!!!

So, you see, I not only felt so sorry for her, but I also felt so shameful of still residing in such a country where such horrible things are allowed to go on. And so, I had no choice but to promise to help her, by any means necessary, and find her a (terminal) solution, which I realized can’t be done without an (external) third party!

So, is there any reliable trustworthy third party, such as women- or human rights organization, which might be concerned about such a case, (or maybe even adopt it), and so would (somehow) help her (safely) escape to a country where human rights, in general, and women rights in particular, are guaranteed, given that her (parents) and (husband) both never allowed, and will never allow her, to issue a Passport??!!

Any (positive) ideas or suggestions will be appreciated!

P.S: Can I even ask some embassy for help, especially the embassy of my country (Romania)??!!

The following is a true story of a real person I met in the city of Ramallah, Palestine, Middle East!

She is an extremely unique, smart, ambitious, (open-minded), and talented 26 year old graduate student who has been on (the top of the honor list throughout her study) and has been taking French and English private lessons with me for 7 months!!

Her parents are (abnormally) brutal, heartless and unfair!!! They, for example, forced her, at such a very early age of 15, to marry someone whom she never liked…only because his family is (rich)!!! And that’s despite of the fact that they know that this guy didn’t even complete high school, and so, I think he barely can even write his own name!!!

Now, she has a 6 year old son form that guy, who, in no way and aspect, proved to be better than her own parents!!! Well, not only he kept abusing, mishandling, and even brutally beating her on almost every occasion, but he also even turned out to be nothing but a purely heartless (sadist)!!!!!!!! In fact, that has been obvious to me since her first lessons with me, as she suddenly kept wearing sunglasses, even indoors, for no obvious reason and for a whole month. But it was only on that specific day, on which I insisted that she takes off her sunglasses, that she started crying and revealed all these terrifying facts to me!!!!

Despite of the frequent endless complaints she made about him to her parents, they never tried to help her out!!! On the contrary, they even cursed her and forced her to go back to him, and kept telling her how shameful they felt about her, as they believe that a woman may never, under no condition or cost, leave her (husband’s) house without his (explicit) permission!!!!!!!

Her Parents, as well as her (husband), even keep warning and threatening her in advance, that they would (literally) kill her, out of (shamefulness), if she made, what they call a (stupid move), and decided to reveal any aspect of her suffering to anybody in the world, which is why she couldn’t hide the fact that now she feels even more terrified than ever; having told (me) about it, which shows again and again how terrified she must be!!!!!!

Her "husband", and since his very early days with her, has frequently tried to make her stop going to school, and later to the university. However, whereas her parents stood aside, one of her relatives surprisingly stood firmly against him in this, and it was only when he promised to cover all expenses of her study, that her "husband" finally, but reluctantly, agreed to let it her go for it!!!!!

Despite being very (rich) her "husband" never gives her enough money for anything, and he actually turned out to be so mean that she even had to sell every piece of gold, which he himself bought her on their wedding!!!!!

So, you see, I not only felt so sorry for her, but I also felt so shameful of still residing in such a country where such horrible things are allowed to go on. And so, I had no choice but to promise to help her, by any means necessary, and find her a (terminal) solution, which I realized can’t be done without an (external) third party!

So, is there any reliable trustworthy third party, such as women- or human rights organization, which might be concerned about such a case, (or maybe even adopt it), and so would (somehow) help her (safely) escape to a country where human rights, in general, and women rights in particular, are guaranteed, given that her (parents) and (husband) both never allowed, and will never allow her, to issue a Passport??!!

Any (positive) ideas or suggestions will be appreciated!

P.S: Can I even ask some embassy for help, especially the embassy of my country (Romania)??!!

I have vague memories of the movie & need help finding out the title. It starts w/ a women, her husband, and daughter. they all go to a play for the child and when the parents go to meet her outside of the school, she had disappeared, the only thing left were her pink fairie wings in a bush. The women gets up set and starts looking for the girl. another memory is that there is a man standing in a building, he turns around and gets stabbed through the sunglasses and eye; when someone finds him the family dog is standing over the dead man. I don’t know if the dog was protecting or eating him. The women eventually goes to this old building (i think it was an apple orchard) and she finds this distraught young man(i think he was) w/ long hair and a little girl. The women claims this child is her daughter but the young man says otherwise. also i remember the lady driving her car either off a bridge /cliff, into water. in the end the man is in the insane asylum w/ all his hair cut off.

I’ve been dating this guy for almost 2 months. Hes my first bf and hes pretty much everything I’ve always dreamed of having in a boyfriend. The only thing is (in my mind at least) I feel like sometimes I’m not good enough for him. His girlfriend of 2 years broke up with him 9 months ago. He was completely in love. They were each others "firsts" he even bought her a promise ring(which he informed me that she still wears?). Even though she cheated on him and has moved on to a new guy somehow she always gets brought up in the conversations. Like if we’re watching tv or something lol he’ll be like "Oh Ashley always hated this show blah blah blah" He still has pictures of her on his cell phone.

Whenever he talks about her I just brush it off because I figure that its his past and I can’t change it. I know she hurt him bad.

Her and I are complete opposites. I’m straight blond haired blue eyed size 32 B and a tad shy. Shes brown curly hair brown eyes with like a size D cup and completely loud and outgoing. I feel like compared to her shes a 10 and I’m like a 6.

Another thing is sometimes I catch him glancing at other girls.

I know he likes me because he told me that if he didn’t like me and want to be in a relationship then he would not drag something on. Hes always texts me first always makes plans to be together. Hes been to my house hanging out with my family every night after work for the last 2 weeks. He recently took me to meet his grandma. And hes constantly buying me little gifts. Yesterday he goes on the computer and show me a pair of woman’s 0 sunglasses and is like "do you like these? What do you think of these etc?" like hinting around that he wants to get me them.

When he leaves I usually walk him to the door and give him a hug and a peck (my parents are home lol) but these last few nights before he leaves he just hugs me and doesn’t let go for a minute or two and then he gives me a kiss smiles and goes for another one or two.

Should I just stop being so jealous and insecure of other girls?

I’ve been dating this guy for almost 2 months. Hes my first bf and hes pretty much everything I’ve always dreamed of having in a boyfriend. The only thing is (in my mind at least) I feel like sometimes I’m not good enough for him. His girlfriend of 2 years broke up with him 9 months ago. He was completely in love. They were each others "firsts" he even bought her a promise ring(which he informed me that she still wears?). Even though she cheated on him and has moved on to a new guy somehow she always gets brought up in the conversations. Like if we’re watching tv or something lol he’ll be like "Oh Ashley always hated this show blah blah blah" He still has pictures of her on his cell phone.

Whenever he talks about her I just brush it off because I figure that its his past and I can’t change it. I know she hurt him bad.

Her and I are complete opposites. I’m straight blond haired blue eyed size 32 B and a tad shy. Shes brown curly hair brown eyes with like a size D cup and completely loud and outgoing. I feel like compared to her shes a 10 and I’m like a 6.

Another thing is sometimes I catch him glancing at other girls.

I know he likes me because he told me that if he didn’t like me and want to be in a relationship then he would not drag something on. Hes always texts me first always makes plans to be together. Hes been to my house hanging out with my family every night after work for the last 2 weeks. He recently took me to meet his grandma. And hes constantly buying me little gifts. Yesterday he goes on the computer and show me a pair of woman’s 0 sunglasses and is like "do you like these? What do you think of these etc?" like hinting around that he wants to get me them.

When he leaves I usually walk him to the door and give him a hug and a peck (my parents are home lol) but these last few nights before he leaves he just hugs me and doesn’t let go for a minute or two and then he gives me a kiss smiles and goes for another one or two.

Should I just stop being so jealous and insecure of other girls?

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